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Author: Diana Sarabia Gallagher
Married couples fight more because after the wedding, the dating masks come off. She stops prepping to look fantastic every time she thinks she’s going to see him, he stops trying to do things that she likes to do (that he hates). The fun, exciting sex fades into routine and the household chore division starts to feel like a tug of war. She thinks, “He’s not doing his part” and he thinks, “she nags me all the time”. They battle over money, because they often don’t come from the same place when it comes to how they feel about money, bills and saving.
This is pretty normal. Successful couples know how to make this transition work for them. They use compromise and consideration for each other to build a comfortable routine that doesn’t leave them bored and frustrated. They work out a deal on who will manage the money and come to some kind of agreement on how the budget is going to play out.
Some couples just fall into misery or annoyance and stay there, but don’t want to go through the drama of divorce and starting over.
Source : Qoura